Re: Portland

Oh, thanks. I see those "Event" invitations, but mostly ignore them
completely. With my Friends, I have people inviting me to special
church services halfway across the continent, things like that, and
there are just too many -- I start getting overwhelmed if I have to even
think about each one for long enough to say "NO", and saying "No"
_feels_ rude, somehow. This THing is something I'd _like_ to have come
to, and wished it were possible while knowing it's not, but it's
possible that I said "maybe"-- I'll have to dig through my pages and
figure out if I did. I'm sure that I wouldn't have said "Yes", but of
course you don't have me listed as a Yes, TBTG.

On 5/14/12 12:50 PM, Deb Counts-Tabor wrote:
> Before this particular line of reasoning gets carried away, it's not a
> GROUP anyone was added to, it's an EVENT which you were INVITED to,
> wherein you could answer YES NO OR MAYBE. If you answered MAYBE THEN I
> FIGURED YOU WERE A MAYBE BUT STILL NEED TO ADD ENOUGH ROOMS TO COVER
> SOME OF THOSE PEOPLE.
>
> Deb Counts-Tabor
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>
> On Mon, May 14, 2012 at 10:30 AM, Sibyl Smirl <polycarpa3@ckt.net
> <mailto:polycarpa3@ckt.net>> wrote:
>
> On 5/14/12 5:06 AM, Jette Goldie wrote:
>
> I did not put my status as "attending" on Facebook. I said
> "maybe" -
> and I meant maybe.
>
>
> and I did NOT JOIN that group - someone added me.
>
>
> What's the formal title of the page? Maybe I'd better go there to
> make sure that I'm not there -- I've never seen it in my list of
> groups on my "Home", but there are other things where I've never
> been that don't show in that list, but do add me and have me listed
> as a member -- One "sub-group" I belong to has a lot of people who
> are my Friends who are very promiscuous about adding their Friends
> to new groups -- it's a pain, but they usually mean no harm and want
> me there. Since Wrong Planet arrived there as a colony from the
> Wrong Planet site, there have been a few dozen Aspie groups started
> that way: I remove myself when one gets to be a pain, and then
> someone puts me back on. Aspies are not very socially clued: it's
> practically a clinical definition of us. I think FB should require
> at least your _consent_ to join a group.


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Sibyl Smirl
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